Dating a married man and self esteem
I sought validation and distraction in women, alcohol and career moves. Low self-esteem is easy to explain yet hard to understand for some.
It’s troublesome for both the sufferer and the poor individual who loves them so much. The bond between you will be unbreakable, and he will love you forever.
There’s no algorithm for being a successful dater but there is one thing you have to have before a successful relationship: self-confidence.
Dating is all about believing you deserve the best and you won’t get very far without that belief.
You allow your fear of rejection to dictate your love life. Their world doesn’t end because one person’s opinion of you doesn’t matter.
You can’t live your life being afraid to take chances. The only way it does is if you have that low of an opinion of yourself. How could you have confidence in the bedroom if you don’t have self-esteem in any other aspect of your life?
But here’s the rub: When a man is dealing with low self-esteem, he’ll make mistakes. My shame and low self-esteem led me to become reckless. Luckily, there were several reliable methods: nonstop partying, irresponsible sex, starting businesses, spending lots of money, exotic traveling.
She also didn’t care for them because it meant I was spending time with my friends and not with her (warning sign #2) – but this time she relented and .
Originally from Michigan, this warm weather seeker relocated to the OC just last summer.
She enjoys writing her own fictional pieces, reading a variety of young adult novels, binging on Netflix, and of course soaking up the sun.
If you don’t love yourself then you’re obviously not happy with who you are.
Before you even think about dating, let alone being in a relationship, take some time to work on self-esteem. Until you find confidence and true love for yourself, you’re better off being single.